About Mathi Surendran
Posted on: 23/Mar/2018 5:14:36 PM
I`m Mathi Surendran from Chennai. You might wonder why I am so interested in marriage relationships. I enjoyed eighteen years of wonderful relationship with my husband who is no more. But the love he showed me are nostalgic memories which I will take to my grave.
Though we had many harrowing problems in our married life, our love remained strong as a rock. It acted as an anchor to our despairing life. Do you know a good marriage gives you an emotional security no other relationship can give you?
I feel sad when couples just throw away their marriage for meaningless reasons. I wanted couples to understand their marriage in its proper perspective. This is the reason I have a blog www.breezystorm.com which deals with many of the relationship problems modern couples face today.
Marriage is not an easy joke. It is a mammoth responsibility. It has its share of ups and downs. There are times you feel your spouse is insensitive towards your feelings. There times you feel your individuality is lost. There are times you are plain bored with your marriage. These are all normal feelings almost all couples have. It is not a cause for divorce.
Do you vacate your house just because there are bugs around? You don’t. You destroy the bugs. Likewise, never throw away your marriage because of your relationship problems. Throw away your problems to save your marriage.
Happy couples perfectly tolerate their imperfections. Unhappy couples find imperfections in all aspects of their relationship. In modern marriages, every minor problem becomes a relationship wrecker. Modern couples have low tolerance level. This is the reason for the spurt of divorces you see today.
Why do modern marriages fail? Why do couples lose their love for each other so easily? Are there no solutions to their never ending problems? Questions I often ask myself.
You can make or unmake your marriage. It all depends on your mentality. It is so easy to destroy your marriage. It is a Himalayan task to rebuild it.
Save your marriage at any cost. Shall we look at the ways to save your marriage? Have you any questions regarding your marriage?
Feel free to ask me. Travel along with me to see your marriage in a new light – a positive light.
