Parents must not ignore these behavioural signs in their kids!!
Is your kid not studying well these days, getting irritated more easily, not mingling with other kids etc, then parents please be careful!!
The life of a kid would not always be smooth. On one day, the kids might be very happy while on other days they might be in distress or unhappy. There are some kids who would not reveal their cause for distress even to their parents also. In such a scenario, it is the duty of the parent to identify certain behavioural signs of their kids. Truth is that early awareness and support from the parents would go a long way in making a huge difference to a kid`s life.
Various behavioural signs in the kids that parents must not ignore are
Emotional withdrawal and irritability:
Parents must not ignore if their child loses interest in certain activities thy once loved. Bitter fact is that this interest loss coupled with extreme irritability could be due to depression, anxiety etc. A kid`s silent cry for help is often shown by sudden withdrawal from the activity. In such a scenario, parents must show compassion to their kids.
Constantly saying lies etc:
Parents might be wrong if they consider the constant lying of their kids is due to their mischief nature. Truth is that kids with low self esteem and fear of punishment would tell lies often. It is noteworthy that if your kid seeks praise or appreciation then the kid might feel insecure or emotional neglect. The parents must ensure that theory kids are loved, and accepted unconditionally.
Avoiding eye contact and touch etc:
The kids might show signs of emotional distress if they avoid eye contact with parents or resist physical touch etc. In such circumstances, parents must show attention to why kids feel insecure. Kids could get comfort when their parents provide gentle patient reassurance.
Changes in sleep, appetite etc:
The signs of stress, anxiety and depression would be shown when they kids find difficulty in sleeping. Kids with emotional stress would show issues like headaches, stomach aches etc. Parents must be aware of these.
Aggression and issues in concentrating:
Point to be noted is that the aggression of a kid towards siblings could also be due to cry For help and not due to anger always. Inner turmoil in the kids is shown by the aggression. Some kids might find it tough to concentrate and it could be due to ADHDHD and anxiety etc. Parents must notice that their kid`s behaviour is communicating more than the words.
Verbal signs of low self worth:
Parents must never ignore if their kids express openly about their low self worth. Truth is that deep sadness or depression etc is often shown by such words from the kids.
Sudden drop in academic performance:
The emotional or physiological distress in the kids would be shown by drop in the academic performance and lack of interest in going to school etc. The distress can be because of bullying or learning issues, poor motivation etc. Truth is that even health conditions like dyslexia and anxiety could lead to distress in the kids. The parents must treat their kids in a friendly manner and know the reason for their distress. The kids must be given enough space to express themselves and they must never be forced by their parents.
