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Tips to Overcome Loneliness in Elderly People

Posted on: 10/Mar/2014 5:07:46 PM

Older people are primarily susceptible to loneliness and societal isolation. This in turn may cause serious consequences on health. However there are many ways to conquer loneliness, even if you live lonesome and find it tricky to get out.

Thousands of elderly people especially those over the age of 75, are lonely and cut off from society in this country, says that the television is their main form of company.

People can stay socially isolated for a mixture of reasons including weaker, getting older, no longer being core of the family, parting the workplace, immobilization or illness, and the demises of the spouses and friends.

Loneliness can lead to depression and wane in physical health. It can affect anyone of any age.

Here are few ways for older people to link with others and feel practical and cherished again:

Smile at others: Snatch every leeway to smile at others or begin a conversation even though it sense tough. If you’re shy or not sure what to say, try soliciting the people about themselves.

Invite friends for tea:  If you are alone, then you will be tempting to think that no-one wish to visit you. But a lot, friends, family and neighbors will be grateful for receiving an invitation to come and spend some time with you.

Stay in touch via phone: Getting involved in chat with a friend or relative over the phone can be the next preeminent thing to being with them.

Start loving computers: If you are living away from your friends and family, a fine way to keep in touch with them, especially with the grandchildren, is by using a personal computer. You can impart emails and photos with your family and friends and can have free video chats using amenities like Skype and Facebook.

You can refurnish your old friend or get into link with new friends circle by involving in many social media sites like Twitter and Facebook.

Engaged in local communal events: Try grabbing the chances of several communal events that come to your door step. For example you can involve yourself in singing or walking group, book clubs, bingo groups, quiz nights and faith groups and so on.

Habit of filling your dairy with the events:  It may help from the feeling of loneliness if you plan the week ahead and drafting the things in your diary to look forward to each day, such as a walk in the park, going to a local coffee shop, temple, library, yoga centre, cinema or museum.

Get out and about:  Don’n’t wait for other people to come and visit you; prepare yourself for travel to visit others. Biggest advantage of being older is that public transport is better value. Bus travel has many allowances for over-60s across the state. And for the case of longer distances, trains and coach travel also cheap too, especially in case booking in advance and online.

Help others: Use the experience you have gained over a lifetime for upcoming generations.